HOW CAN WE MAKE OUR RELATIONSHIPS BETTER

To maintain balance in every relationship sounds like impossible. We can’t make everyone happy. The moment we try to fulfill an expectation of somebody who is close to us or who is related to us, the next moment he or she starts expecting something else. There is no end to expectations. We have to understand that needs of a person can be fulfilled but desires or expectations can never be fulfilled. It is impossible to fulfill the expectation of everybody. Even we can’t fulfill a single person’s expectation.

Now we have to see the person who is close to us is demanding a materialistic need or unmaterialistic desire. Materialistic needs are..if a person demands house, car, etc. They can be fulfilled and unmaterialistic desires are like if a person says make me happy by your words then it can’t be fulfilled.

Expectations don’t let us live freely.Living with expectations turns us into weak people on an emotional level. Since we wait for things to happen just as we wish, we have to  learn what is within our control and what is not.We cannot control the thoughts or the attitude of others.However, we can control the way we interact with it, how we think about and face it.

See every situation of life with a positive attitude. Never complain about anything. Expectations always lead to disappointments.

A simple example is.. I give a work target to myself for everyday. But daily some work is left to achieve that target. It means..If even I am not able to fulfill my own expectations then how can anyone else is able to fulfill my expectations.

It’s quite simple, if someone is not fulfilling your expectations, that doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t care for you.

So, rather than expecting, sharing and caring is good.