SELF CONFIDENCE

Self confidence is an art of life. We have to make life as a game. We don’t have to be too serious about our life. Life is not a problem which must be solved. It is a game to be played. Like a game has some rules to follow, similarly we have to follow some rules in life.

To know self confidence, firstly we need to understand what is self esteem. Lets take an example of a game. Whenever we play a game we have to follow some rules of the game. We can’t do cheating in the game. That is called self esteem. The person with self esteem is so peaceful inside.Self esteem is important than anything else.

For building self confidence, we need to have a passion in life. Passion doesn’t means only having interest in a particular thing. It means we have to know all the pros and cons of it. For example, someone likes to play cricket. But he only likes to bat. And he hates balling and fielding. Then, cricket can’t be his passion. It means we have to be mentally prepared. And now whatever happens, we have to go on.

Then we have to start practising on our passion. For practising we must take an expert advice. We must have the right source of knowledge and that can be done by following right kind of people or a right kind of book.

Then to achieve self confidence, we must have patience in ourselves. We must not think patience as a negative word. It is an extremely positive word which makes us stronger. We must have patience that either we win or loose in short term, but we will definitely win in long term.This all makes us  stronger to achieve our self confidence.